How to Choose the Perfect Wedding Photographer for Your Oklahoma or Destination Wedding: A Comprehensive Guide to Finding the One for You
Choosing the perfect wedding photographer for your Oklahoma or destination wedding is one of the most meaningful decisions you’ll make during your planning journey. It’s not just about finding someone who takes beautiful photos—it’s about choosing someone who truly understands you, your story, and the vision you have for your day. Once you find that perfect fit, everything else begins to fall into place, and wedding planning feels that much more exciting. The right photographer doesn’t just document your day—they tell your story in a way that feels authentic, natural, and timeless.
But let’s be honest—searching for the perfect wedding photographer can feel a little like online dating. You start by scrolling through profiles, trying to find someone who speaks to you and reflects your vision. Maybe you check out their Instagram, dive into their website, and browse through full galleries. Slowly, you start to feel that spark—like you’ve found someone who just gets it. But how can you be sure? The answer is simple: it’s all about the connection.
How to Choose the Perfect Wedding Photographer in 5 Easy Steps
1. Get Inspired – Gather Your Wedding Photo Inspiration
Whether you already know what style you want or you’re still figuring it out, it all begins with collecting inspiration. Start by imagining what you want your wedding day and wedding photos to look like. Do you envision stunning bridal portraits? Epic landscapes? Emotional candid moments?
Write down what’s most important to you, and start gathering photos that capture that vibe. Pinterest, Instagram, and Google are your best friends here—save your favorite photos and refer back to them when you start browsing photographers’ portfolios.
Need help figuring out your style? Check out Brides.com’s guide to wedding photography styles for inspiration and examples.
2. Explore Portfolios with Your Vision in Mind
As you browse, you’ll likely come across a few photographers whose work stands out. This is the fun part—digging into their portfolios to see if their style aligns with what you want—whether it’s candid, documentary, traditional, moody, artistic, or a blend of styles.
Don’t just skim through images—take time to view full galleries. Here are some things to pay attention to:
- Getting Ready Photos: Do they capture those raw, emotional moments?
- Details: Are they skilled at photographing rings, invitations, and décor?
- Candids: Look for photos that feel real and unposed.
- Classic Shots: Are there portraits of the couple, family, and wedding party?
- Venue Variety: Do they capture both the big and small details of your venue?
My photography style is a blend of candid and timeless—classic, natural storytelling with a documentary feel. I aim to capture fleeting emotions as they unfold while also making sure we get the must-have portraits you’ll treasure forever.
✨ Want to see more of what that looks like? Take a peek at my wedding portfolio here!
3. Personality is Everything
You’ll be spending your entire wedding day with your photographer, so it’s crucial that your personalities mesh. After all, a wedding photographer isn’t just a vendor—they’re part of your team.
Check out their content: Read their blogs, follow their Instagram, and dive into their website. Does their tone resonate with you? Do they describe their process clearly?
Set up a call or grab coffee! Getting to know each other is the best way to see if you click.
When you find the perfect wedding photographer for your Oklahoma or destination wedding, you’ll just know. That instant comfort and trust are what make your photos feel genuine.
4. Think of photography as an Investment in Your Future Memories
Wedding photography is an investment. While it’s tempting to cut costs, photography is one area where quality truly matters. High-end photographers bring experience, direction, and calm energy that ensures every moment is perfectly captured.
Remember—it’s not just about the camera. It’s about years of experience, planning, and emotional awareness that go into creating your wedding gallery. You’re investing in someone who will help you feel relaxed, confident, and beautiful while preserving moments that last a lifetime.
Curious about what wedding photography typically costs? Brides.com’s guide to wedding photography pricing breaks it down beautifully.
✨ I offer several wedding photography packages for Oklahoma and destination weddings. You can click here to explore my pricing!
5. Read Testimonials
Don’t just rely on what a photographer says about themselves — testimonials and referrals are key to getting an honest perspective. Check out:
Website Testimonials: Most photographers feature reviews from couples who have worked with them.
Instagram Tags: Look for posts from past couples to see their photos in a real-world context.
Vendor or Venue Referrals: These are often a goldmine for reliable recommendations.
Here’s the thing — I don’t aim for just pretty pictures. I aim for connection. My heart is in creating images that make you say, “That’s so us.” The laughter, the tears, the way your hand fits perfectly in theirs — those are the moments that matter most.
Most of my bookings come through referrals, which I’m endlessly thankful for. Having couples who trust me — and connecting with their families and friends — is one of the most rewarding parts of my job.
Here’s something one of my recent brides emailed me:
*“I mean…we are just so grateful!!! The photos are so beautiful, look natural, and tell the story of the whole day. It means so much to me that you snapped a shot of me holding my nephew and so many other happy moments!
Every time you send us more photos, we’re just in awe. I also had such a special moment with my friend Macy at the reception getting to look through the Polaroid book.
Thank you thank you thank you!!!”*
Messages like this truly mean the world to me. It’s one thing to take beautiful photos—but it’s another to create something that makes people feel. Knowing a couple can relive their wedding day through my images is the greatest honor. These aren’t just photos—they’re pieces of your story, frozen in time.
Every “thank you” or happy tear from a couple reminds me how special this job really is. It’s not just about documenting a day; it’s about preserving love in its most honest, heartfelt form — and that’s something I’ll never take for granted.
In the End Trust Your Gut
Choosing a wedding photographer is undeniably a very difficult decision. Ideally, you want someone who listens to your vision, answers all of your questions, and makes you feel confident and supported throughout the planning process. However, if something doesn’t feel right or if you’re having doubts, trust those feelings. Ultimately, it’s better to find someone who truly aligns with your vision rather than settle for a photographer who doesn’t feel like the perfect fit. After all, your wedding day deserves nothing less.
Here are some questions you can ask:
- Can we see a full gallery from a recent wedding?
- How long have you been photographing weddings?
- Have you worked at our venue before?
- How will the final photos be delivered?
Choosing a photographer is an exciting step in your wedding journey, and while it takes time, the effort is absolutely worth it.
Why I’m the Perfect Photographer for Your Wedding (and I’ll Travel Anywhere for You!)
As a destination wedding photographer, I specialize in capturing love stories all over the world—whether it’s an intimate ceremony in the mountains, a beachside vow exchange, or an elegant celebration in a historic venue. No matter where your dream wedding takes you, I’ll be there to document every precious moment.
What sets me apart is my deep commitment to making your wedding day not just stress-free but an experience you’ll enjoy every step of the way. From the first consultation to the final delivery of your photos, I prioritize communication, organization, and a relaxed, fun atmosphere that allows you to be fully present and immersed in your big day.
Plus, I believe in building lasting relationships with my couples. My goal isn’t just to be your photographer—it’s to be part of your journey and create memories you’ll cherish forever. Whether you’re planning a local celebration in Tulsa or a destination wedding on the other side of the world, I’m here for it. No location is too far—if you have a dream wedding in mind, I’ll be there to capture it!
My Style: Romantic, Candid & Timeless Wedding Photography
Overall, I describe my wedding photography style as a blend of romantic, candid, and timeless storytelling. Specifically, I combine photojournalistic intuition with an eye for dreamy details, all while keeping things relaxed and fun. Whether it’s stolen glances or golden hour portraits, I’m here to preserve the magic exactly as it felt. Ultimately, my goal is to capture your love in the most authentic and artful way possible.
Ready to Book the Perfect Wedding Photographer?
Whether you’re tying the knot in Oklahoma or halfway across the world, I’m in. I’ll travel anywhere for love—and I’ll be more than just your photographer. Let’s create something beautiful together.
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